Question 1

Why choose Modernly Ever After?

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As a Surrogate, it is imperative to choose an agency that can educate, lead and guide you through your surrogacy journey. Modernly Ever After was founded on the belief of providing transparency, compassion, knowledge, generous compensation, and a tailored journey that meets both you and your Intended Parents needs.  
We have a highly dedicated team to provide a unique level of support to assist you in making the Intended Parents dreams come true.

Question 2

How do I become a Surrogate with Modernly Ever After?

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To begin your Surrogate journey, you will first need to complete our initial Intake Form click here.(javascript:void(0)) It is crucial that you read over and meet our standard requirements to become a surrogate. If you do not meet these requirements, you will be immediately disqualified from the process.
If you have completed the initial Intake Form and have met the standard requirements, you will be prompted to complete the Surrogacy Application. The application takes about 10 minutes, and it's easy to apply right from your phone. You will be contacted within 24-48 hours to inform you of the next steps.

Question 3

How much does a Surrogate make?

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Modernly Ever After offers one of the most generous base compensation and benefits packages ranging from $50,000 to $85,000. Surrogate base compensation varies depending on your state of residency, medical insurance plan, experience as a surrogate and terms outlined in your Carrier Agreement. To view the compensation package click here.(javascript:void(0))
Whether you are a first time surrogate or an experienced surrogate, you will be cherished and rewarded for the amazing journey of creating these families Modernly Ever After!

Question 4

What are Modernly Ever After’s Surrogacy requirements?

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• You are a United States Citizen or Legal Resident (must be able to provide documentation that is valid for at least 2 years) 
 • You are between the ages of 21 - 38 
 • You maintain a healthy BMI 
 • You had a healthy pregnancy and delivery history without complications (as documented in medical records) 
 • You had no more than 5 vaginal births or 2 c-sections 
 • You have one or more children of your own, that are still in your care 
 • You maintain a healthy stable lifestyle
 
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Question 5

What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?

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Gestational Surrogacy is the process by which a fertilized embryo is implanted in a gestational carrier, who will carry the resulting child/children to term. The Gestational Surrogate has no genetic relationship to the baby she is carrying. 
Traditional Surrogacy is the process by which the Surrogate is both the genetic and gestational mother and will undergo artificial insemination. The Traditional Surrogate will relinquish custody of the resulting child/children.
Modernly Ever After ONLYfacilitates Gestational Surrogacy journeys.

Question 6

Do Surrogates need their own medical insurance?

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No, you do not need your own medical insurance. If you do have medical insurance coverage, we'll take a look at the plan to see if surrogacy is covered. If so, you may be entitled to a higher base fee. But if you don't have insurance we'll find a plan that will cover you, and your Intended Parents will cover any associated costs.

Question 7

Why work with an Agency versus going the Independent route?

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Agencies have great experience matching prospective Intended Parents and Surrogates. They have developed extensive vetting processes to find the best candidates, offer education about the surrogacy process, look at your goals and expectations, and provide the necessary support you need throughout the experience.
 
Some prospective Intended Parents prefer to be in charge of their own search for a surrogate to cut out the middleman and gain referrals through personal contacts. Pursuing the independent route for the surrogacy process can be uncertain for inexperienced surrogates who may not know how to find qualified Intended Parents, negotiate legal contracts, financial compensation packages, and parental rights of the resulting child/children.

Question 8

What are the risks of being a Surrogate?

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The primary health risks of Surrogacy can be common pregnancy side effects, such as morning sickness, general discomfort, swelling and soreness. There can be similar side effects to some of the required surrogacy medications.
 
As the Surrogate, you may also be at risk for Intrauterine growth restriction (IUGR), preeclampsia, gestational diabetes, placental abruption, a high likelihood of carrying multiple births with the risks of which include preterm labor or low birth weight for the babies.

Question 9

Can I work with Intended Parents I know?

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Yes, some Surrogates may choose to work with an Intended Parent that they already know, in what is often referred to as compassionate or altruistic surrogacy.
 
These types of arrangements could involve little or no compensation, and are also without the benefits of the guidance and safeguards provided by an agency.

Question 10

How do Intended Parents find me?

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Surrogacy agencies can provide help with the screening process of Intended Parents and finding a suitable match based on the preference and goals of both the Surrogate and Independent Parents.
 
Modernly Ever After will host your Surrogacy Profile in a secure database for the Intended Parents review.

Question 11

How much contact will I have with my Intended Parents?

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Great communication between a Surrogate and Intended Parents is greatly encouraged, as this can be key to your surrogacy journey. It is also important to find the right balance on how often to communicate during the surrogacy process. Communication between both Surrogate and Intended Parents can also be facilitated through the agency.

Question 12

How long does the Surrogacy process take?

Accepted Answer

The Surrogacy Process can be a long and emotional journey, and highly complex based on various factors that can affect the process including background checks, medical and psychological assessments, and the legal contract process.
 
Most surrogacy journeys can take anywhere between four to six months to locate a suitable and qualified match between a Surrogate and Intended Parents and embryo transfer to a confirmed pregnancy. However, most surrogacy journeys can take 12 - 24 months to be completed.

Question 13

Who will have parental rights?

Accepted Answer

A Pre-Birth Order is a legal document that is key to assigning parentage and is an important step in the surrogacy process. This pre-birth order is an agreement that the Surrogate and the Intended Parents sign before the child is born. The document declares that the Intended Parents are the legal parents of the child.

Question 14

What happens after the baby is born?

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After birth, the resulting child/children will be transferred to the Intended Parents or the NICU at the hospital for care. The Surrogate will remain at the hospital until the treating Physician clears Surrogate to go home.

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